For men, committing to a relationship is tough and it’s never easy, sometimes it has ups and downs. Most men have experienced different kinds of relationships, but sometimes men don’t even measure up half way.
Wondering what went wrong? Here are some of the mistakes that men probably made in a relationship:
1. Involving your parents about issues in your relationship
Now who among you like this idea? This is one of the most embarrassing attitude of a guy who’s in a relationship. When you are in a serious relationship, two people must be aware that both of you are committed to each other, if a problem arises, the two people must solve their problems together. Letting your parents involve in a relationship problem is a sign of immaturity. You do not need to call your parents or your partner’s family and let them decide all the trouble in your relationship. This is a BIG NO NO in a relationship.
2. Letting your partner feel dependency
Having a faithful and thoughtful partner is every man’s dream, a partner who understands your weaknesses, and your imperfections and accept you for who or what you are. But showing your partner’s too much dependency is not healthy. Even if your partner loves you so much, if you let her feel you are too clingy and cannot function without her, she will probably get annoyed.
3. You are showing too much affection and attention
When you are in a relationship, it doesn’t mean that you already have the right to invade their privacy and their space just to show some effort. Women will get annoyed and feel suffocated if you won’t give them the space and time they want, on their own.
4. Not making her look good
Women, in general, tend to ask other people’s opinion and easily gets affected. They are self conscious on what they wear, how they walk and talk. Men on the other hand, care less as long as they comfortable in what they’re wearing. But that doesn’t mean you won’t let your partner dress the way they should, you must understand that women love to be appreciated physically and emotionally. Make her look and feel good when your partner is with her friends or her family
5. Tracking your partner’s location when she’s with her friends
Women love hanging out with their partner, but remember, friends came before them. So give your partner time for their so called ” Girls Night”. Don’t put a tracking code or apps on their phones, and gets paranoid when your partner won’t call back. It’s really annoying.
6. Entertaining other women you recently knew
Your girlfriend understands if you talk with another woman, but entertaining and flirting even if you are in a relationship is a different story. Studies suggest that women are more attracted to men who are already taken so this is not good for those who are in a serious relationship. Men becomes weak when lust appears their way. Don’t think your partner is stupid enough not to know your actions and behavior if you start to cheat on her. Women are more intuitive than men.
7. Constant confrontation:
It’s totally normal in a relationship if a misunderstanding and fight comes in, it helps rebuild and make the relationship stronger and better, but fighting every time, constant misunderstanding is a relationship killer. You both need to give yourself time to listen to each other’s opinion, not listening to your partner’s side will worsen the argument. So, calm yourself and listen to your partner first.
8. Learn to understand
Communication is the foundation of everything. You cannot expect a couple to have the same emotions on every issue, you need to listen and try not to be consumed with too much anger and emotion. An effective communication helps avoid misunderstanding and improve relationships. If you cannot speak up and prefer to stay silent, then you need to re-evaluate your relationship.
Wondering what went wrong? Here are some of the mistakes that men probably made in a relationship:
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| For men, committing to a relationship is tough and it’s never easy, sometimes it has ups and downs. Most men have experienced different kinds of relationships, but sometimes men don’t even measure up half way. |
Now who among you like this idea? This is one of the most embarrassing attitude of a guy who’s in a relationship. When you are in a serious relationship, two people must be aware that both of you are committed to each other, if a problem arises, the two people must solve their problems together. Letting your parents involve in a relationship problem is a sign of immaturity. You do not need to call your parents or your partner’s family and let them decide all the trouble in your relationship. This is a BIG NO NO in a relationship.
2. Letting your partner feel dependency
Having a faithful and thoughtful partner is every man’s dream, a partner who understands your weaknesses, and your imperfections and accept you for who or what you are. But showing your partner’s too much dependency is not healthy. Even if your partner loves you so much, if you let her feel you are too clingy and cannot function without her, she will probably get annoyed.
3. You are showing too much affection and attention
When you are in a relationship, it doesn’t mean that you already have the right to invade their privacy and their space just to show some effort. Women will get annoyed and feel suffocated if you won’t give them the space and time they want, on their own.
4. Not making her look good
Women, in general, tend to ask other people’s opinion and easily gets affected. They are self conscious on what they wear, how they walk and talk. Men on the other hand, care less as long as they comfortable in what they’re wearing. But that doesn’t mean you won’t let your partner dress the way they should, you must understand that women love to be appreciated physically and emotionally. Make her look and feel good when your partner is with her friends or her family
5. Tracking your partner’s location when she’s with her friends
Women love hanging out with their partner, but remember, friends came before them. So give your partner time for their so called ” Girls Night”. Don’t put a tracking code or apps on their phones, and gets paranoid when your partner won’t call back. It’s really annoying.
6. Entertaining other women you recently knew
Your girlfriend understands if you talk with another woman, but entertaining and flirting even if you are in a relationship is a different story. Studies suggest that women are more attracted to men who are already taken so this is not good for those who are in a serious relationship. Men becomes weak when lust appears their way. Don’t think your partner is stupid enough not to know your actions and behavior if you start to cheat on her. Women are more intuitive than men.
7. Constant confrontation:
It’s totally normal in a relationship if a misunderstanding and fight comes in, it helps rebuild and make the relationship stronger and better, but fighting every time, constant misunderstanding is a relationship killer. You both need to give yourself time to listen to each other’s opinion, not listening to your partner’s side will worsen the argument. So, calm yourself and listen to your partner first.
8. Learn to understand
Communication is the foundation of everything. You cannot expect a couple to have the same emotions on every issue, you need to listen and try not to be consumed with too much anger and emotion. An effective communication helps avoid misunderstanding and improve relationships. If you cannot speak up and prefer to stay silent, then you need to re-evaluate your relationship.
